Your self-care bottom line
The brutal winter months always remind me of the importance of walking as a way of staying connected to myself. Mostly because, when the weather is really awful, I can’t get out for a very long walk,...
View ArticleSlowing down to speed up: embracing gentle on Valentine’s Day
I gave myself a Valentine’s gift today: the gift of sleeping in. I slept until 9:30 (though not without the usual 4 a.m. wake-up call from kitty!). This was a conscious choice — I decided yesterday...
View ArticleProcrastination? Or no payoff?
A while back while channel-surfing I had the pleasure of happening on Tootsie, one of my favorite movies of all time which I hadn’t seen in way too long. In the movie, Dustin Hoffman plays Michael...
View ArticleMaking friends with creative transition
Recently I spoke with a client who had just completed a massive project that took several years of her life to bring to fruition. It was a huge accomplishment for her to send her “baby” out into the...
View ArticleUnderstanding the message of fear + new coaching programs!
When we try something new, or sense that change is on the horizon, or when we’re in a murky transition period that seems to have no end, it’s not unusual to feel varying amounts of fear. Sometimes,...
View ArticleThe difference between self-care and self-indulgence
I have to admit that I’ve been pretty on edge lately. At times I feel unsafe. The house I rent is up for sale, and I know I need to move soon. Being in limbo mode with my living space brings up all my...
View ArticleHearing my voice in a noisy world
my daily journaling station I grew up in a chaotic and noisy home. I’m not sure why it was this way — we were (and are) a loving family, and our propensity is more toward the introvert side of the...
View ArticleRadical self-care: when your “normal” has changed
As I’ve been working with clients in my Stellar Self-Care program, I notice how the tendency for many of us is to keep going on “as usual” — even though our lives have changed. Maybe a health issue...
View ArticleAllowing yourself to dream fully
Sometimes, when we realize we want to make changes in our lives — to show up more fully, to get our creative work out into the world — we hit a kind of wall. The wall is at once universal (we all...
View ArticleBringing the joy back to your creative work
Recently, a writer friend and I had a great conversation about what to do during those periods when you feel like the joy has simply evaporated from your creative work (or your life!). The talk got me...
View ArticleDo you have a “most creative” time of day?
I got an email from a client the other day (and she gave me permission to share parts of it here). It was a joyful update — she’d finally hit on a workable process for doing the beautiful paintings...
View ArticleHow moving is bringing up my stuff (literally)
Sullivan claims his “right size” at the top of the hierarchy of our new home. It’s been a month since my last post here, and for good reason: I moved to a new home two and a half weeks ago. Well, sort...
View ArticleWalking my talk about self-care + Happy Fall!
Maybe the hardest thing for me about going through a time of heightened activity (or, insanely heightened activity) is coming down from it all. After the last couple of months of transitioning from my...
View ArticleThe difference between “ready” and “comfortable”
Scroll down to find out about limited-time Autumn Transition Coaching Sessions. As I am settling into my new living space, I notice how satisfied I feel with this change. Being in this new place...
View ArticleAvoiding the intimacy of creating
Publishing this post today, my heart is heavy with the news of the horrible events in Paris. A prayer for love and kindness in the world, and for each of us to remember that it starts with the way we...
View ArticlePermission to do it differently + last day to grab an Autumn Transition...
Scroll down to learn more about my Autumn Transition Coaching Sessions — the deadline to sign up is today! Sometimes (often) I get really, really attached to the way I’ve always done something. Like,...
View ArticleYou only ever need to do one thing
Yesterday I was having one of those days where my mind spun with all that I was sure needed to be done. I sat at my kitchen table, staring out the window, trying frantically to access peace (as if...
View ArticleHow time distortions keep you from getting things done
I love how this clock looks like it has cat ears. Here at the beginning of a new year, a curious phenomenon has arisen in the work I’ve been doing with my coaching clients. It comes down to this: what...
View ArticleAre you pulling back enough to gain perspective? + special February coaching...
Scroll down to learn about my special coaching prices this month, in celebration of the Lunar New Year! One thing about my many, many years of journal-keeping is that certain patterns — truths about...
View ArticleHow distracting yourself can get you unstuck
Sometimes we can find ourselves in a cycle that looks like this: We’re pushing and pushing to get something done, but it’s not working, no matter how hard we push. Then we ask ourselves, “Why isn’t it...
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